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(upbeat music) - Hey y'all, you're listening to the Faith Church Sermon Podcast. We are so excited that you're connecting with us today. It is our desire for you to grow as a result of the resources we provide here. We pray that this blesses you today as you seek to know him more. - We all want these three things. and wisdom. We all want just a little bit more health to be a little bit healthier today than we were last week or last month so we can enjoy life. We certainly all want wealth. We want to have enough material possessions to be able to do what we can do without struggling and we want to be wise. We want to be able to make good decisions for ourselves and good decision for others. It's why there are so many self-help books published on the regular, right, where people are saying as experts, Hey, here's how you can find health and wealth and wisdom. It's why there are so many coaches and life coaches and podcasts on these topics like crazy because it's a natural human desire. No matter where you are, what generation you've been brought up in, where you were born, it's a natural desire to want to be healthy, wealthy and wise. What's interesting is because it's such a natural thing for every human, no matter where you're would go to God for this. You would think, it's like, well, if all of us need this, all of us want this, why don't we go to God and get these things? Because God is the one who made us. It would seem to me that he would know how I could be healthy in all areas of life, emotionally, physically, spiritually, sexually, relationally, financially. You would to go to him and say, "God, tell me what you think about money and how I should handle money and what I should do with money." And he would guide me in that. You would think the all wise God who's smarter, stronger, more intellectual than anything or anyone. You'd think if we go to him, we would gain wisdom. But it seems like everybody wants these things. But the last place we turn to is God himself. of Christianity make this section their entire focus. There's aspects, parts of Christianity, where everything is about, if you give enough and serve enough and trust enough and obey enough, you will always be healthy and you can overcome any sickness. There are parts of Christianity that will tell you, tell you, if you give enough and serve enough, you're going to be wealthy. You're going to have cash coming out your ears. And you'll always be wise and know exactly what to do when to do aspects of Christianity that will focus all on this and ignore this. When the goal, the teaching of the Bible, the purpose of following Christ is for our eyes and focus to be on God. And when we put our hope and trust in God, the maker and creator and the sustainer of all things, when he's our focus, he says, "Seek me and you'll find me, seek me with your whole heart. He's the focus we follow him, and when we put our trust in him, he helps us be healthy, helps us understand money, helps us to be wise in making good decisions. So that's what we're going to focus today. We're actually going to ask the question, how can followers of Christ be healthy, wealthy, and wise? The Bible answers it in Proverbs 3, verses 5 through 18. So if you have your Bibles, turn them on, open them up. in 2022, looking at the entire Bible. We're marching through the entire Bible and picking up all the major themes and teaching of the entire scriptures. And so we've spent time in different sections. And we kind of talked about with you that the Bible is a book that has lots of chapters, but it's more like a library, that this book has different sections in the library that have different genres of teaching. So we spent time in the history section of the Bible, learning the history of Israel. We spent time in the prophetic section of the Bible where we're hearing from God's voice, people who are speaking on God's behalf. Now we're getting into the wisdom section of the Bible, which is going to encapsulate the Psalms, Proverbs and Ecclesiastes. And in looking at these three different books, we're gonna learn wisdom. We're calling this series Living Wisdom give us wisdom for our feelings. It's really a heart focus. It deals with other things too, but it has a lot of heart. The Proverbs hyper practical, hyper practical. So it's gonna give us wisdom on how to walk, how to talk, how to treat people, how to act. And Ecclesiastes goes into the purpose of life and why we're here on planet Earth. So we're gonna work throughout the summer or ecclesiastes, to give you a little bit of a sample of the wisdom section of the library together. And we've encouraged you to read the whole Bible. I know that sounds like a major task. We developed this little guide. If you haven't grabbed one or downloaded one, you should. What's interesting about this little guide, it's not to be a companion for our teaching in sermons each week. It's actually written sort of separately for you to guide you as a sort of journey through manageable reading. So maybe you've already started this. And if you are, we're six months in, so you're kind of halfway there. But here's what's great. If you haven't picked this up yet and haven't downloaded or jumped in, you can and catch up. And it's not that much reading. A little bit of reading each week. You'll get the whole Bible in 2022. And if you started and stopped, pick it up again. Let's get the Bible into us because because we have the scriptures in us, it's going to make us whole as followers of Christ. So we're gonna jump into Proverbs three. Are you ready? first. God, we need you. We count on you. As we head into the summer, we need you. We count on you. We're so excited that our kids are out of school, mostly. And we're super excited for those who graduate, high school, college, university, graduate from tech school. over and above every season of life. And so in this season, we want as a family to live wisely. In this difficult age, with all that's going on in our hearts and minds, we desperately need your help and want you to guide us. So we'll lean in this summer and grow in wisdom. That's our desire. Meet The book of Proverbs, just a little perspective, it's written by King Solomon. King Solomon is the son of the famous King David. He becomes king when he's 20 years old, pretty young. And God says to King Solomon, ask me for anything and I'll give it to you. And Solomon asks for wisdom. And God says, I'm gonna give you wisdom and I'm also gonna bless you in incredible ways. And Solomon, as you read his story throughout the Bible, person. He's the author of three books of the Bible, talk about bestseller, right? And he authors a bunch of proverbs. He's also a songwriter. He wrote a thousand different songs. He's an influencer. People from all over the world came to listen to him. He had servants and gardens and zoos. He was an architect and a builder and he had tons of cash. The Bible says he had 25 tons of gold every amount of money. He had so much money that he didn't use silverware. He used goldware. So his Keurig machine was made out of gold and it went to a gold coffee cup. He had so much gold he could use it for anything and make anything out of it. He was rich. He also had hundreds and hundreds of women, which means he had lots and lots and lots of sex. And he himself no pleasure. Whatever he wanted pleasure wise, he got, which can I tell you, he had a lot of sex. And this is the guy that writes these proverbs to help us understand how to be healthy, wealthy, and wise. Proverbs chapter 3 verse 5. Trust in the Lord with all submit to him and he will make your path straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes. Fear the Lord and shun evil. This will bring health to your body and nourishment to your bones. Honor the Lord with your wealth with the first fruits of all your crops. Then your barns will be filled to overflowing and your vats will brim over with new wine. My son, do not despise the Lord's discipline and do not resent his rebuke because the Lord disciplines those he loves as a father love the son he delights and bluster those who find wisdom those who gain understanding for she is more profitable than silver and yields better returns than gold wisdom is more precious than rubies nothing you desire can compare with her long life is "Mism's ways are pleasant ways, and all her paths are peace. She is a tree of life to those who take hold of her. Those who hold her fast will be blessed." You want to be healthy, wealthy, and wise? Solomon cracks the code right here. He starts out with these famous words, Proverbs 3, 5 and 6, "Trust in the Lord with all your and he'll make your path straight. Notice what he says. It's one little word. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and all your ways submit to him. I don't like this proverb. I mean, I would rewrite it, wouldn't you? Trust in the Lord with some of your heart, Joe. Trust in the Lord and in some of your ways submit to God because I don't want to do all. give me of all my sins, but I certainly don't want to trust him with all because I can't see him. I can't talk to him. I don't understand him. Why would I trust him with all? I'll do some, God. I'll follow you with some of my heart, but if I don't understand it, if it doesn't make sense, if I don't agree with it, I'll do the some, but not all. I'll do the golden rule because that makes sense. taking the all part. I'll do some and you'll meet me in some, but all? And yet this is what Solomon says. If we're gonna be healthy, wealthy, and wise, he says, "Trust God with all your heart." Not some. All. Not a little. All. So we could sort of rephrase Proverbs three, five, and six. with all your heart and lean not on your own feelings. In all your ways, acknowledge Him and He will make your path straight. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding of politics. In all your ways, acknowledge Him and whatever happens in politics, I'll give you peace. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding of guns and gun laws. In all your ways, acknowledge me and I will You trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding of sex and all your ways submit to me and I will satisfy your greatest desires. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding of relationships with your husband or your wife or your boss or your enemy. Acknowledge me, submit to me and I will make your relationships peaceful. not what I understand, not what I agree with, not what I like. He says, if you're going to be healthy and wealthy and wise, trust me with every aspect of your life. He continues. Verse 7, "Do not be wise in your own eyes, fear the Lord and shun evil. nourishment to your bones. It's pretty simple, he says. Here's how you become healthy. Do not be wise in your own eyes. It makes me think of the phrase that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, right? And so we can kind of agree and disagree with that being true, right? Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and it's not in the eyes of the beholder, right? We all have our preferences, sort of we like certain kind of music or certain kind of art. But there's something so much bigger and more objective than that, so that when you go to the Grand Canyon, every single human goes objectively beautiful. It's not, maybe it's beautiful to me, it's not beautiful to you. No. You see the Sistine Chapel, or you hear, you hear Handel's Messiah, you go, "That's objectively beautiful." There's things that are bigger than beauty being in the eyes of the beholder, and there's things I think is wise and smart is my opinion. You do wise and smart on your own. I'll do wise and smart. No. I mean, there's times when I think I've been pretty wise and I've made some pretty bone-headed decisions and I've learned I'm not so wise. You've been there? Because wisdom is not in the eye of the beholder. There's decisions we all make that are just plain ignorant, foolish. evil, stupid. Solomon says, "It's not based on your wisdom." And I look at our world currently right now. And in our culture, there are people calling wrong evil, sinful things right when they are objectively wrong. And they are calling things that are true and noble and beautiful, wrong. be right. And Solomon says the answer to this is, do not be wise in your own eyes. Fear the Lord. Fear the Lord. And it's an interesting statement. It's a statement that's repeated in the Bible a number of times. Fear the Lord. There's a proverb that says, "Fear the Lord." The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. And when I first hear that, I go, wait, I'm supposed to be scared of God, and that's where I'm gonna become wise. I'm supposed to be intimidated by God. in the context, it means having a holy respect, having an awe of who God is. When I fear him, I recognize that he is infinite, holy and pure, and I am finite and impure. A holy awe, a fear of God is recognizing the difference between me and God, and saying when I come to decision points, am I going to fear you, follow you, you or am I going to follow my feelings of myself?" So fearing the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, he says. So he would say, "How do you want to be healthy, wealthy and wise?" Fear God. "Not be afraid or intimidated, respect, having appreciation and awe for who God is and of what to do, respect or follow your feelings, or respect and follow God. You say, with God's help, I'll follow you, God. I'll trust you, that's the path of wisdom, that's the path of health, that's the path of financial health. Two, he continues. In verse nine, honor the Lord with your wealth, with the first fruits of all your crops. Then your barns will be filled to overflowing, That's, we'll brim over with new wine. Honor the Lord with your wealth. How do we do that? How do we honor the Lord with our wealth? Well, I think the simplest way is trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean on your understanding of money. In all your ways, acknowledge God's principles and teaching and wisdom on the subject of money and generosity and use his principles, submit to him when you think of using your money. Take your financial plans to him and say, with your money, not my money, your money, and I will follow and do that. And Solomon makes this great statement. He says, "Then your bonds, if you honor God with your money, then your barns will be filled to overflowing." And I think sometimes in Christianity, we hear this, that if we do this, it's like a transaction. If I honor you God with my money and I give certain money away and I'm generous, then you're gonna make me rich. I don't think that's what he's saying. I think what he's saying is that he's going, give you enough of what you need to overflowing, not all that you ever want to overflowing. There's a difference. And most of us don't get there because we're unwilling to honor God with our money. It's so interesting in the church. We'll give God all our sin, but we say to Him, don't touch my money. I'll trust you with my sin, but I'm not trusting you in my bank account. Instead of going, "No God owns everything, "and he wants to give me everything I need, "but I'm so busy keeping money for myself, "horning it for myself, "spending more on myself that I have, "and seeking more for myself." And God's like, "That's not honoring me "with your money." And that kind of mindset is not submitting to God, so solemn and interestingly, in this passage, who find wisdom, he doesn't say, "Blessed are those who find wealth." "Blessed are those who find wisdom." Those who gain money? No, gain wisdom. For wisdom is more profitable than silver and yields a better return than gold. Wisdom is more precious than rubies. Nothing you desire can compare with wisdom. But we get this all wrong. You want to be healthy, wealthy, and wise. You honor God with your money. It's yours, God. Everything I have is yours. You take my sin, take my money, too. It's all yours. Take my life, take my gifts, take my talent, take my time. Everything I've got, my struggles, my anxieties, my fears, everything, I trust Him with all of me. the money, the stress, the sin, everything is yours. I trust you and I will use everything for your glory. And it's so interesting because God entrusts money in my hand and I hold onto it super tight. But then I say to him, give me more, where's he going to put it? Because I'm so busy holding on tightly with it. The Bible teaches us over and over. If you're faithful with little, you'll be faithful and much. But we haven't been faithful with little and we think he's going to give us That's not too. I mean, seriously, instead of going, "Everything I have is yours. It's yours. Use it for whatever you want. I will be generous and give and serve other people and help the poor and the unjust. And I'm going to do whatever you want me to do. Instead of chasing more money, I'm going to chase wisdom. I'm going to honor you with my money." And then, holy cats, he's going to take care of you in every way and entrust you with more so that you can do more. So you ready? Buckle up. 'Cause everything up to now has been easy. Verse 11, "My son, do not despise the Lord's discipline and do not resent his rebuke because the Lord disciplines those he loves. As a father, the son he delights in." Solomon says, "Do not despise the Lord's discipline." I'm afraid of God, right? Because God's gonna discipline me. What does that mean? Does that mean if I step out of line and I do something wrong, it's gonna throw lightning bolts at me or an earthquake or some plague or what, how's this gonna happen? That's not what discipline means. Discipline is correction. Like a parent corrects their child. God is going to correct you, his son, his daughter. But the struggle is we've all had earthly parents well. And so you came home from school one day and your dad had a bad day at the office and flew off the handle and threw you across the room. So when you hear God disciplines as children, you assume that's what it's going to look like that God is going to be some kind of angry, emotional, unjust being who's going to throw lightning bolts at you when you make one little mistake. But that's not what the Bible teaches whatsoever. The Bible teaches that God perfectly just, perfectly self-controlled. And he disciplines us, corrects us for our benefit and for our good. He loves us so much that if you want to be healthy, wealthy, and wise, you embrace God's correction. Skip a line. You embrace God's correction, and I know that's hard. You know why? Because I'm the only one in the room that's a perfectionist. I don't like to be corrected, do you? I don't like someone telling me I got it wrong. You put a comma in the wrong place. No, I didn't. I guess a comma. What are you getting upset about? Right? If that's true about some little tiny thing, what about some big things that we get wrong? As if you haven't made hoodles of mistakes, to be alive means you're making mistakes all the and falling all the time, but we don't want to be corrected or disciplined, do we? We don't really have an appetite for it, but God loves us so much as his sons and daughters that he corrects us, and he disciplines us for our own good. Can you imagine if he didn't? Seriously? You slandered. You gossip. You racist. You did all of these things wrong. And God's going to give you a trophy and a hug and say, I hope you feel good about yourself. That's not love. You mistreat your wife. You broke confidence with your boss. What is he supposed to do? Just look the other way and say it's okay. No, here's where God loves us or you didn't do your homework assignment, he forgives you, but you're going to detention. You did something criminal. Now you pay the fine or you do the time. That's God's love and discipline. He's trying to train you. You're following this feeling that you know is wrong and you know is sinful and it's bringing darkness and shame and you're asking God to bless you. Instead, he's allowing the shame to come into your life to say, you're on a dark and dirty road. What are you doing? Turn around. I love you too much to leave you go down that road. He corrects. He disciplines. We're moving in a direction. We're ignoring him. We're rebelling against him. He loves us too much to not use whatever it takes to stop us in our tracks. pretty big if you didn't know. He will use pain, he will use suffering, he will use sickness, he will use jobs, he will use money, he will use people, he will use the loss of relationship, the loss of influence, the loss of peace, the loss of life, he will use loss and pain to stop us in our tracks and say, I love you too much to watch you, my son, my daughter go down that road. And I hate it, I don't like it, I don't like preaching it, Thank you for myself, but here's what I find hope in. I look at really great athletes. I look at really incredible artists. And I see that the way they become incredible athletes and incredible artists is they embrace discipline and correction because they wouldn't become great as an athlete or an artist without discipline and correction. And so God wants us to be his great sons and daughters incredible things through you and me in this world to love and innovate and bring justice and goodness which means he's going to correct us and challenge us and put obstacles in front of us to cause us to stop and to look up and say I trust you God I'm sorry. He uses a tool bag that's pretty big to get his sons and daughters attention because he loves us and yes he forgives us. Yes there's no condemnation, but he's not in the business of you and me wasting our lives. Going down dark trails, wrong things. He wants our attention to use us and to teach us. And David teaches me about this in Psalm 139. It's one thing to want correction. It's another to accept correction. Why does he say that? Because so many times our hearts are duplicitous. We don't even know our own hearts. So he says to the God of the universe, "Search me, O God, and know my heart because I don't even know my heart. Test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there's any offensive way in me and lead me in the way everlasting. God, I welcome you to come and examine and correct and discipline me because I know I don't know myself and I trust you. lead me, redirect me, realign me, transform me. It's embrace is discipline because he's so loving and kind. And wouldn't it be great to back up from this, if we wanna be healthy, wealthy and wise, if we just trust God with everything, easy. We just fear God above everything else. If we just honor God with our money and we embrace God's correction, everything will go great. And wouldn't it be great on June 12th, to sort of download all this into our motherboards We got it here and we go, we got this, I'm healthy, wealthy and wise, the rest of the year. Is that how it works for you? It doesn't work for me. I can look at this and go, yep, yep, that's right. I agree. And then nothing changes. What's up with that? And it's like I look at this and it's so desperately what I want, but it feels elusive so many times. God will never ask me to do something He won't enable me to do. And so I take all of this and I say, I don't honor you with my money. I don't fear you above everyone else. I fear what people think of me. I don't embrace your correction. Would you help me? Because I can't do this by myself, but you can help me. And when you ask God to help you with these things, his answer is always yes. I will help you. I will empower you. I will strengthen you to trust and fear and honor and embrace. But we can all just ignore all of this and just go find a really is going to get us all jacked up and excited and will be great for a month and then we'll fall on our face again. We'll go find some transcendental meditation to make all this happen and we'll ignore the fact that the God of the universe made you and loves you and wants you and says I'll help you with this stuff if you'll come to me and I've struggled with this like you struggle with this and there's times I've prayed to God and said help me honor you the first 10 years of my marriage with money. Maybe you've been there. It's like I had kids really fast, and diapers are really expensive, and that credit card is so easy to swipe, and racked up tens of thousands of dollars in credit card debt, and it made me feel like an incomplete loser, and the weight and shame of debt. And I prayed to God, helped me to use my money correctly, and I only times I cut up my credit cards and threw them away and expected the change. But I still wasn't changing. And you know what it took? It took me talking to a friend and confessing to my friend. And not only accepting God's correction, accepting the correction of a friend who said, "How you're living, you need coaching." You need a financial coach, not for your future, for your presence. And you need to actually listen to everything they say. And over a period of time, my wife and I got out of credit card debt and it feels incredible with God's help of another human being, maybe you're stuck in an incredible mess where you're so far from healthy, wealthy, and wise. Yes, welcome God into that, ask him for his help. But maybe it's time to ask another person to help you too. And if you ask another person, just like when you ask God, are you and that's why you're not healthy, you're not wealthy, and you're not wise. Maybe it's time to say, God, I need your help, and I need some coaching, and I need to pay attention to what someone else says, and listen to what someone else says, because the way I'm doing it is getting me sideways over and over and over again. Sometimes the reason you're sideways is because you're asking God to bless something that's sinful, and he won't. He loves you, he forgives you, action. Maybe your sideways, because you're asking God for help, but you haven't asked another person for help, and then actually listen to what they said. And I think these things help us if we're humble. And so I want to be healthy, wealthy, and wise, and I need God's help. I want to do the right thing, and I need my friends to help me. And maybe for That's why we say you go to prayer works. That's why we ask you to chat up online or to call the church office because maybe you don't have someone you can trust with what you're struggling with and ways you're not healthy. Well, then ask for help. We'll help you. We'll come alongside you. We'll encourage you. But are you going to listen? There's sometimes as a pastor and a shepherd. We write prescriptions for you to grow and change, but you throw the prescription out and wonder why the infection is getting worse. He wants to help you. He wants to strengthen you. He wants you to be wise and make good decisions. He comes alongside you. He will never condemn you or shame you, but he sometimes corrects you and gives you corrective advice that you don't wanna hear. And even in that moment, are you going to be humble? Or are you gonna do your own thing? And then wonder why he's not, feels like he's not present. So lean into this stuff with me. You're not alone. I struggle with this too. and with the help of the family of God. We can be wiser. Let's pray together. God, would you help us? Would you humble us? Would you show us that we've chased after gurus and we have a stack of self-help books at home. Listen to oodles of podcasts, life coaches, pastors, but we find ourselves stuck maybe change us in our marriages and our relationships, in every aspect of our lives, to the end that you would use your sons and daughters to do more in this world, to bring about innovation and goodness and love and peace and justice. We want to live wisely. You can help us. We trust you.